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Part One "Am I a Role Model or a Rolling Pin?"
Your children’s success will most likely resemble what we, as parents, have modeled. The good, the bad and the ugly will be
imprinted in their lives through years of living with us. Our behaviors and
attitudes, our daily routines, our goals and lack of goals, our dreams and
achievements, or our poor accomplishments due to lack of zeal and ambition are things they watch carefully.
What are our children seeing? Do they see
hopelessness and despair, discouragement and lack of faith? Or do they see
someone that thrives in the heat of the battle, someone who is caring and
forgiving, a strong character with good morals and values, and someone who will
dare to dream and never quit?
Do they see a procrastinator, someone with a
billion excuses, a person with no dreams, no motivation, no goals and no
achievements to brag about?
Do they see a role model worthy of echoing or a rolling pin just good enough to get by, make some bread and survive?

A rolling pin depends on someone to take it and use it in order to create pastries, breads and other goodies. A rolling pin waits on the counter for the baker, chef or "parent" to use it's creativity to create. A rolling pin is unable
to do for itself or anyone else. Do you see where I'm going here?
What is the legacy we are creating for our
children?
God will hold us accountable. This is true. Yet, I don’t think we need to wait to be held accountable in the future. We
need, I need, to be held accountable now, today. The world of education now
uses the word accountability as part of what they look for in a highly qualified
teacher.
I believe, it should also be used when observing the characteristics
of a great parent, not perfect, but great. I know there are no perfect teachers or parents. We are always learning and are known to make mistakes. But shouldn't we work daily to conquer those areas in our lives that make us a poor example,
a weak role model and a sad hero for our children?

For the Christian parent:


Lord, help us today to be more than
hugs and
love for our children. Let us inspire them to change the world, to be leaders,
to be revolutionary in their thinking. Fill us so that we can give to them what
You so graciously give to us. Impart vision so that we can impart
interpretation. Our children are in Your hands, Heavenly Father. Mold me into
the role model my children need to see each day. Let me raise children that
have a heart for you above all else, in Jesus name, amen.
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